Hi again both,
Just to clarify, this conversation is located on the public Restarters forum (click here to see it). New posts on this topic are automatically emailed to you as notifications. Replying to these notifications via email automatically posts your response on the forum topic. This allows everyone to communicate via email, but still participate in open group discussions.
You can find out more about these notifications and how to change your settings here:
If you’d prefer to communicate privately, you can message each other directly by clicking the ‘Message’ button on the other person’s profile page (here’s Steve’s and here’s Tom’s).
Hope that makes sense, but let me know if you have questions 
James